Choices are always there even though you don’t feel like you have a choice you always do. Choices define yes, sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse.
Have you ever made a choice or a decision that you regret? Is there a time that you wish that you could go back in life and make the other choice?
Hindsight is always 20/20 but you cannot go back and change your decisions.
Sometimes I feel like I don’t have a choice, and that I have been given an ultimatum. You can always find a new job, make new friends, go back to school, and potentially make other financial decisions but you really need to decide that at a time feels impulsive but is it really? Sometimes at the end of the day you may know already that you have already made the choice for yourself without even knowing it.
Sometimes your initial thought process on the decision is a true sign of how you feel and that is maybe how you should decide that there is always a chance that you can change your mind.
Have you ever decided and then on second thought were able to change your mind or had the opportunity to last minute go and do something? Have you ever made a decision that ended up changing your mind or has affected you either for the good or bad that has always stayed with you? Has there been a decision that has created a lot of stress and/or anxiety for you that it was unbearable now to make?
Sometimes I feel that you need to take the power away from someone else and you need to make the choice for yourself and realize that if the worse scenario does in fact happen then that is OK. You can always find a new job, pay off debt, have a different significant other, find somewhere new to live or must give something up if that is what it means. You have the power to do what you want and to make the choice that is right for you.
You always have the choice, and you really need to take the time to make sure that you are going to make the decision that is right for you now in time.
Things at that current moment may seem like they are the most ideal but there is always another choice that you can make that is right for you. Sacrifices do need to be made at times and well there is always payback, but you can survive all of the choices that are made. You only have one life to live so make sure that you are choosing the decisions that are right for you and that you are not going to look back on and regret. Life is short to have regret. Really make sure that you have the power to make the right decision that is going to sit right with you, and you can live with for the rest of your life.