You can really do whatever it is that you want to be doing in life.
You can’t get where you want to be in life by wishing and hoping but you need to actually be working for it, a lot of hard work.
I have been finding that I shouldn’t be listening to what other people are saying. Others are not behind closed doors and they are not privileged to my bank accounts or any of my personal information and it really isn’t any of their business to know any of my personal information. If I were to listen to these people, lets call them haters then I would be in a permanent miserable position then I ham in now.
I know what is bet for me and because of that I need to be able to work on that for myself. I know what I want in life and I can slowly am working my way to the place where I want to be doing. That’s the thing, is that I have broken down what I want into smaller steps and I am working on it two to three times a week. Things are constantly changing and life is fluid so you need to be going with the flow.
I going to be able to work for as long as I am working on what my goals are.
I find that another type that I have that keeps me motivated is that I am very judgmental of other people, if I am going to be judging them for what they are doing with their life and personal time then I should be going forward in keeping myself up with stuff that is keeping me busy.
I know what I want and I don’t what my judgments to be me so I must constantly be working towards what I want to be doing so I am must to what I need to be doing to keep myself busy. If I don’t want my judgments to be just plan rude so I need to be keeping buys to make sure that I am working hard to make me on point to be sure that I am not a hypocrite. The best part is, is that we all want different things so we must be working on whatever we want to keep us all going.
My judgments are one thing but others judgments is a whole different ball game. You must be able to ignore what they other people are saying, let it roll off of you, shake it off if you must. Others are just others. If someone is bothering you then let them go, the last thing you need in your life is toxicity.
Send yourself wit people who are amazing and are not going to be able to bring you down. The best thing you can do is to surround yourself with people are going to give you good vibes, build you up and want you to succeed in your goals and want to help you reach them together.